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关于死亡以及恐惧

2011-11-13

最近看了本书,当中提到,很多人非常的害怕死,原因是死代表的就是无限的空虚,是对存在的完全否定。因此恐惧死亡就是恐惧虚无。

很多宗教设立了一个天堂,在死后人们可以快乐的生活在里面。书中还提到很多很多,但是我只是就死亡以及恐惧谈谈。

仔细看看身边,我们貌似的确是害怕死亡的,例如,看见坟墓之类的东西会冒冷汗。或者遭遇危险时感觉恐惧,但是,我想说的是,这或许不是对于死亡的恐惧,而是出于自卫产生的作用。

人和动物一样,在遇到危险的时候都会设法躲避危险,例如你不会去碰很烫的东西。这是人的本能,天生就有的。

人和动物的不同之处是人有思想感情,这样,许多事情便会经过心理进而影响活动。我觉得害怕坟墓还有黑夜,更多的是心理因素吧。也许是由于看太多鬼电影,听太多鬼故事,或者是小时候听家人讲的关于黑夜的恐怖事。这些事肯定会让我们在碰见和故事当中相同的情景时产生心理作用。仔细想想,一个人在黑黑的屋子里,完全的不会有什么危险,但是的确会觉得害怕,原因就是在那种条件下,人会想的太多,当然会连想到些可怕的东西,心理越来越发毛。想到那些不好的事是纯属大脑虚构的,但是即使这样,人类本能还是发挥作用,认为遇见危险了,然后分泌激素之类,神经紧张起来。

平常一直说什么怕死不怕死的,有谁真正的想过死会是怎样?估计没多少,我觉得平常谈的怕死完全算不上害怕死亡,可以说就是害怕受到伤害,这是本能。死亡确实代表无限的虚无,谁想过虚无会是怎样???没人吧,但是对于死亡,人们更多的是想到过死亡的过程,关于各种各样的死亡过程谁都会知道几种吧,一定会有比较痛苦的。害怕死亡就应该=害怕死亡的过程了那么。这只是通俗的说。

我觉得我面对过死亡,管你信不信。世界处处充满着危险,稍不注意就会碰上的。我就觉得在面对死亡时,真是没想过什么,也不怕就那么的死了,更多的只是在关注别的东西(仔细想想,每个人都是非常少的关注过自己,每天都想这别的东西别的事)。

曾经晚上一个人走在校园没人的角落,很安静,一个人在那种条件下当然会恐惧,我也是,但是试着一直告诉自己不会有危险,感觉好多了。

死亡没什么可怕的,恐惧也更多的是心理作祟。


可能是为了我的英文博客,还同步写过英文版…

i kind of like studying things about death lately.and like to think about death and fear..well,i might think out some thing .

long long ago ,I always think a question .is fear death naturally ? someone answer me ,why care about that ?? yes,don’t think about it is an answer ,but ,finally ,you have to face it,maybe sometime you needs to face it if you want to live.for example, you have a cancer or sth.

I recently read a book ,it says that everyone fear death because death means “endless nothing”,you will disappeared ,maybe your mind will gone too. maybe this is true,we all fear it because of it ,but how many people really think about it ?I think not much.or just someone need or who like philosophy.

In the book it also says terrorists don’t fear death because they always been told afterlife is how beautiful and death can let you forget all the pain and none-happy stuffs.it’s a honor to death for something .I think this should be right.

I figure out that humans are motion animals,so fear almost because you think too much ,maybe you see too much ghosts movies and fear the ghosts might do the same things like movies. fear is just an animal natural , every animal do fear if they find something might do harm to them.just like we fear to touch very hot water,it hurt us.

i try to stay in a very dark and silent place,i can’t stay in it over 1 minute ,during some research almost no one can stay in that place for over 10min,,most people will think many horrible thing when they got there. this is we think too much .

I learn to adapt stay alone in dark place, and control me to not think about horrible things,and told me I’m all okay and I’m in a very safe place,no need to fear ,just calm. it works ,i almost dare to stay in dark alone . now it became better.

few time ago .i go to happy valley to play Roller Coaster ,it’s really chilling , it makes me like face to death.it really does. then ,i don’t fear it ,and keep smile all the time.because i know , i’m all ok.

saying all this just want to say , all we talk fear death is not really fear death, we just fear get hurts. it’s an human natural ,actually threaten is not too much is just we think too much.always let you know that you are safe can help you fear nothing .even when the real threaten came ,you can face it but not very nervous.


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